Does an Adolescent with Severe Aggressive Behavior Deserve a Second Chance?

Amy Johnson

Amy Johnson

An adolescent was aggressive. He had to be physically managed by staff daily. This severely neglected youth, who also lost a brother to a drug related incident recently, was so full of feelings of rage, rejection, fear and sadness that it resulted in flurries of his fists punching the walls, beds, other residents and staff. Throughout the six months he’d been in placement at the residential youth facility, he had been the staff’s biggest challenge. Most of the staff wanted him gone. Then, last week, many of these same staffers gave him the Student of the Week award.

So what happened? Why the change in his demeanor? Well, credit would have to go to Bear, an akita/husky mix that this teen began working with the week prior in an animal assisted therapy program.

The program requires seven residents to meet twice a week, two hours at a time, for an educational dog training program. Many of the staff thought he didn’t “deserve” to be a part of this group because of his hostile behavior, but the director of treatment thought being selected to participate might be just the boost he needed. He was right.

Child trauma expert Dr. James Garbarino asserts that “neglect leaves a social vacuum that sends a child looking for a connection somewhere else or with someone else.” In this case, the connection came in the form of a non-judgmental canine with behavioral challenges of his own. Bear came from a neglectful background and was removed from his home, just like our adolescent boy.

Dogs provide a safe venue in which to “practice” pro-social skills that are often minimal or very limited in troubled youth. Larry Brendtro wrote that “being treated as a person of value and being able to show concern for others gives life purpose and meaning.” As human beings, we all need to have purpose and meaning. Without the opportunity to give and receive kindness, Brendtro adds, “young people remain self-centered and fail to develop empathy.”

Empathy cannot be taught…only experienced. So asking the youth in the program to “save” or improve the lives of “their” shelter dogs provides opportunities to practice empathy as well as a sense of responsibility, accountability and accomplishment, not to mention practicing patience and impulse control.

This example, of course, is just one example of many that has occurred through the interaction of vulnerable humans and animals. The intention of this blog is to highlight the myriad of benefits that have been documented and witnessed through the use of animal assisted therapy. I look forward to hearing your reactions and experiences in the coming months.


Amy Johnson is a counselor, lecturer, founder, and program director of the non-profit organization, Teacher’s Pet: Dogs and Kids Learning Together.

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  1. Patricia Myers says:

    Thank you for sharing this heartwarming experience. I have been fortunate to raise a Guide Dog for the Blind. When this dog was career changed from that program and returned to us, I began to take her to the college campus where I teach. During the middle of a tearful quite difficult counseling session with a student who had experienced multiple incidents of sexual abuse my dog woke up and sat quietly by this young woman. She patiently waited before she put her head on the student’s knee. The student reached down to pet her while crying harder and harder. Eventually the student slipped out of chair and sat on the floor with her arms wrapped around my dog. My dog just looked at her with her big brown eyes and her wonderful dog warmth as the student cried until she needed to stop. She later told me she had never cried before and that she had only been able to do so because my dog made her feel so safe. It was a kind of healing that I’m not sure people can give to each other no matter how empathetic we are. Animals are simply quite marvelous creations.

  2. I have been hearing a lot more about this kind of therapy. Thanks so much for the detailed success story. I have no desire to own a big dog but I can see how they could be beneficial to lots of my child and adolescent clients. Your story inspires me to learn more about this and possibly use it!!!

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