Archive for August 23, 2010

Relax To Dream

Dreams are amazing! Don’t you just love dreaming? As a child, going to sleep was one of the things I was always looking forward to, because in my sleep I could always dream. Nobody ever told me “no”, or “don’t” or give me any negative reinforcement. I would wake up and try to remember my [...]

“Courage Is The Capacity To Meet The Anxiety…”

“Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration. ” Rollo May, The Meaning of Anxiety I am an older student who should be thinking of my retirement [...]

Rise Up! Ask For A Raise!

Many counselors have complained about low reimbursement rates from managed care and insurance companies. Some have gone to fee for service payments and abandoned managed care altogether. Dropping all managed care contracts and only accepting fees paid by clients is one way to handle the problem. Doing that cuts out many clients that have paid [...]

Bullying: A Counselor’s Perspective

Massachusetts passed a new law entitled, “An Act Relative to Bullying in Schools,” in 2010. The purpose of this new law is to “create more positive school climates and age-appropriate instruction on bullying prevention in each grade, and schools must offer information to parents on bullying prevention.” (Worcester Medicine, July/August 2010). School personnel (teachers, guidance [...]